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FAQs

How much money do you give for a funeral? ›

What is an appropriate donation at a funeral? If you are giving a donation in lieu of flowers, then donate the amount you would have spent on flowers. Typically, this means $50 to $100. However, the amount is ultimately up to you because it is the thought that counts and not the amount you donate.

If you are struggling to find a way to put your thoughts into words, and you want to send a message but are unable to think of what to say to someone before a funeral, consider something simple; “I will be thinking of you today.” “Sending love and prayers to you and your family.” “I hope things run smoothly today.”

"Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss." "(The deceased) was a great person, and I'll miss them very much." "(He/she) meant a lot to me and everyone else at (the work place.) (He/she) contributed a lot to the company and our team, and (the deceased) will be missed."

Do express your condolences sincerely and let the person know you are thinking of them. When you're at a loss for words, keeping your response simple and genuine (e.g. “I'm sorry for your loss – please know that I'm here for you.”) is the best approach.

The median cost of a funeral is almost $8,000, but can range to over $10,000 depending on the options you choose.

There are different tiers of caskets, coffins, flowers, memorial stones, cemetery plots, and other miscellaneous services that can easily take a $7,000 funeral to $25,000 or more. You can expect the total cost of your funeral to range between $5,000 - $25,000, depending on the services your family chooses to go with.

Preplanning. The act of making arrangements for a funeral, memorial, ceremony or other service/plans prior to death. Preplanning can involve simply recording one's wishes or making financial arrangements (pre-paying). Also known as "Preneed."

Short condolence messages

“May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.” “We hope you know we are by your side during this time of sorrow.” “Sending you strength today and peace in all the days ahead.” “Wishing you peace and comfort in these difficult days.”

Don't tell the family that they'll get over their grief with time. Don't tell a husband or wife that they'll meet someone else. Avoid mentioning any negative interactions that you had with the deceased. Never mention it if a family member isn't crying or doesn't seem sad.

What do you say at the end of a funeral? ›

In closing, let us remember [Name] not only for the life they lived but for the love they shared and the impact they had on our lives. May their memory be a source of comfort, inspiration, and strength as we navigate the journey ahead.

In a traditional funeral service, a religious officiant may offer prayers, read from scripture, and deliver a eulogy. They may also lead the congregation in hymns or other religious songs.

Classic sentiments such as, “I am sorry for your loss” and “Please accept my condolences” are fitting in almost any situation. If you had a close relationship with the deceased you might opt for a more personal message such as, “He was such a wonderful friend to me.” or “I will never forget everything she did for me.”

Listen more than talk. Maintain centered and open body language. Keep eye contact. Allow for spaces of silence as needed by the griever.

Your closeness with the family: Your support to the grieving family should depend on how close you are to the deceased and their family. In case you are just an acquaintance, you can offer up to $100. However, if you are really close to the family, it might be a good idea to support them with more than $100.

For close family members and relatives, it is customary to offer a more substantial amount, typically ranging from SGD $100 - $500 or even more (could be into the thousands), depending on your relationship and financial capacity.

A family in need will appreciate any amount of money, so offer as much as you can afford. If you weren't very close to the deceased, you may offer the amount equivalent to a flower arrangement. At the end of the day, it's the gesture that counts the most.

Flowers are a language of love and empathy in this time of mourning. Whether with an arrangement or bouquet, you can say what needs to be said without having to find the right words yourself. You also bring a combination of various flowers. Another traditional gift to bring to a funeral is sympathy cards.