CEBC » 1 2 3 Magic Effective Discipline For Children 2 12 › Program › Detailed (2024)

About This Program

Target Population:Parents, grandparents, teachers, babysitters, and other caretakers working with children

For children/adolescents ages:2 – 12

For parents/caregivers of children ages:2 – 12

Program Overview

1-2-3 Magic is a group format discipline program for parents of children approximately 2-12 years of age. The program can be used with average or special needs children. 1-2-3 Magic divides the parenting responsibilities into three straightforward tasks: controlling negative behavior, encouraging good behavior, and strengthening the child-parent relationship. The program seeks to encourage gentle, but firm, discipline without arguing, yelling, or spanking.

Program Goals

The overall goals of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 are:

  • Be able to use one simple tactic to manage obnoxious behavior without arguing, yelling, or spanking
  • Be able to use six different tactics for encouraging routines for positive behavior
  • Master four strategies for strengthening relationships with their children
  • Understand how to recognize and manage the six kinds of testing and manipulation
  • Learn appropriate expectations for children's behavior

Logic Model

The program representative did not provide information about a Logic Model for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Essential Components

The essential components of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 include:

  • 1-2-3 Magic is typically taught in a group format.
  • The program defines two basic kinds of problems that children present to adults; Stop Behavior and Start Behavior. When adults are frustrated with their youngsters, the kids are either:
    • Doing something the adults want them to Stop
    • Not doing something the adults would like them to Start
  • Some Start behavior tactics (behavioral management techniques) include using: positive verbal feedback, a kitchen timer method, a docking system, natural consequences, and charting.
  • 1-2-3 Magic has three simple steps:
    • Control Obnoxious Behavior. Learn a simple technique to get your kids to Stop doing what you don't want them to do (whining, arguing, tantrums, sibling rivalry, etc.)
    • Encourage Good Behavior. Learn several effective methods to get your kids to Start doing what you do want them to do (cleaning rooms, going to bed, homework, etc.)
    • Strengthen Relationships, Learn powerful techniques that reinforce your bond with your children.
  • 1-2-3 Magic utilizes a counting technique that is clearly understood by children so they know the consequences of their actions. The secret is not just in the counting, however. The real secret or "magic" comes from parents learning when to keep quiet.
  • The 'Little Adult Assumption' explores the notion that children are not little adults and do not have the same reasoning capacity as an adult
  • Parents also learn about managing the Six Kinds of Testing and Manipulation: badgering, intimidation, threats, martyrdom, butter-up, and physical.
  • Relationship building strategies are also provided in this program

Program Delivery

Child/Adolescent Services

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12directly provides services to children/adolescents and addresses the following:

  • Arguing, whining, sibling rivalry, disrespect, bedtime issues, homework compliance, etc.

Parent/Caregiver Services

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12directly provides services to parents/caregivers and addresses the following:

  • Parents with children with behavior problems involving compliance and oppositional issues; difficult adult/child relationship

Recommended Intensity:

One or two sessions per week

Recommended Duration:

1.5 hours per session for 4-8 weeks

Delivery Settings

This program is typically conducted in a(n):

  • Adoptive Home
  • Birth Family Home
  • Foster / Kinship Care
  • Hospital
  • Outpatient Clinic
  • Community-based Agency / Organization / Provider
  • Group or Residential Care
  • School Setting (Including: Day Care, Day Treatment Programs, etc.)

Homework

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 includes a homework component:

Homework assignments involve managing "Stop" behaviors (whining, arguing, tantrums, sibling rivalry, etc.) and encouraging "Start" behaviors (cleaning rooms, going to bed, homework, etc.) and relationship building strategies.

Languages

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12has materials available ina languageother than English:

Spanish

For information on which materials are available inthis language,please check on the program's website or contact the program representative(contact information is listed at the bottom of this page).

Resources Needed to Run Program

The typical resources for implementing the program are:

  • Microphone
  • Classroom set up

Manuals and Training

Prerequisite/Minimum Provider Qualifications

Mental health professionals or teachers

Manual Information

Thereisa manual that describes how to deliver this program.

Training Information

Thereistraining available for this program.

Training Contact:
  • Nancy Roe
    phone: (630) 469-0484
Training Type/Location:

Onsite

Number of days/hours:

3–5 hours

Additional Resources:

There currentlyare additionalqualified resources fortraining:

  • Sig Taylor - Calgary, Canada (403) 237-7501
  • Barbara Condrell - Buffalo, NY (716) 687-2311

Implementation Information

Pre-Implementation Materials

There are no pre-implementation materials to measure organizationalor provider readiness for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Formal Support for Implementation

There is formal support available for implementation of1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12as listed below:

Optional formal support is available by email, phone, and personal consultation as needed. Contact the program representative listed on the bottom of the page for more information.

Fidelity Measures

There are no fidelity measures for1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Implementation Guides or Manuals

There are no implementation guides or manuals for1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Implementation Cost

There are no studies of the costs of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Research on How to Implement the Program

Research has not been conducted on how to implement1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Relevant Published, Peer-Reviewed Research

Child Welfare Outcome:Child/Family Well-Being

Bradley, S. J., Jadaa, D. A., Brody, J., Landy, S., Tallett, S. E., Watson, W., Shea, B., & Stephens, D. (2003).Brief psychoeducational parenting program: An evaluation and 1-year follow-up. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 42(10), 1171–1178. https://doi.org/10.1097/00004583-200310000-00007

Type of Study:Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants:222

Population:

  • Age — 3–4 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Majority White
  • Gender — Experimental group: 58.4% Male and 41.6% Female; Control group: 63.3% Male and 36.7% Female
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads.

Location/Institution:Toronto, Canada

Summary:(To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to describe the randomized controlled evaluation of a four-session psychoeducational group for parents of preschoolers with behavior problems, delivered in community agencies. Participants were randomly assigned to 1-2-3 Magic or a wait-list control group. Measures utilized include the Parenting Scale (PS), the Preschool Behavior Questionnaire (PBQ), the Preschool Characteristics Questionnaire (PCQ), and the Brief Symptom Inventory (BSI). Results indicate that the parents who received 1-2-3 Magic reported significantly greater improvement in parenting practices and a significantly greater reduction in child problem behavior than the control group. The gains in positive parenting behaviors were maintained at 1-year follow-up in a subset of the 1-2-3 Magic group. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the postintervention follow-up, and concerns about generalizability of the results due to the largely white, middle-class, and educated sample.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up:1 year (intervention subgroup only).

Chesterfield, J. A., Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. S. (2021).Evaluating a brief behavioral parenting program for parents of school-aged children with ADHD. Parenting, 21(3), 216–240. https://doi.org/10.1080/15295192.2020.1777783

Type of Study:Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants:57

Population:

  • Age — Parents: 33–58 years; Children: 6–12 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Not specified
  • Gender — Parents: 82% Female, 18% Male; Children: 39% Female, 61% Male
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads.

Location/Institution:Sydney, Australia

Summary:(To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to assess whether a brief behavioral parenting program, 1-2-3 Magic, would be effective in reducing disruptive behavior and ADHD symptoms in school-aged children with ADHD and dysfunctional parenting in their parents. Participants were randomly allocated to the 1-2-3 Magic or waitlist-control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF) and the Therapy Attitude Inventory (TAI) and the Conners 3rd Edition-Parent Short Form (Conners 3-P(S). Results indicate that parents in the 1-2-3 Magic reported less child disruptive behavior, reduced child ADHD symptom severity, and less dysfunctional parenting at post-intervention compared with controls. Post-intervention results indicated that the major intervention effects were maintained at the 6-month follow-up. Limitations include the lack of a control group at 6-month postintervention follow-ups, reliance on self-reported measures, and the small sample size.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up:6 months (intervention group only).

The following studies were not included in rating1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12on the Scientific Rating Scale...

Flaherty, R., & Cooper, R. (2010).Piloting a parenting skills program in an Australian rural child protection setting. Children Australia, 35(3), 18–24. https://doi.org/10.1017/S1035077200001139

Note: This article was not used in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 since it was a modified version of the program. The aim of this randomized controlled trial was to investigate the effectiveness of a three-session version of the 1-2-3 Magic on parenting satisfaction and reduce levels of anxiety, depression, stress and dysfunctional parenting style in parents or caregivers of children who have experienced abuse. Participants were randomly assigned to an immediate intervention group or a 3-month waitlist control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parenting Scale (PS), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS), and the Parenting Satisfaction Scale. Results indicate caregivers who received the intervention reported significant improvements in their mental health and discipline practices, and a significant reduction in child problem behavior compared to the waitlist control group. Limitations include the small sample size, reliability on self-reported measures, and length of follow-up.

Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. (2014).The 1-2-3 Magic parenting program and its effect on child problem behaviors and dysfunctional parenting: A randomized controlled trial. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 58, 52-64. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2014.05.004

Note: This article was not used in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 since it was a modified version of the program. This randomized controlled trial investigated the effectiveness of the 1-2-3 Magic parenting program when delivered to large groups of caregivers. The effectiveness of two versions of the programs (1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 and 1-2-3 Magic & Emotion Coaching) in reducing child problem behaviors and dysfunctional parenting, and the effect on emotion-related parenting style, were examined. Participants were randomly allocated to one of three groups: (1) the DVD group, based on the 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children program; (2) the Emotion Coaching (EC group), based on the 1-2-3-Magic & Emotion Coaching program; or (3) the Waitlist-control group (Control). Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS-21), and the Emotion-Related Parenting Styles Self-Test (ERPS-ST). Results indicate that both intervention groups reported significantly decreased child problem behaviors, dysfunctional parenting, parental depression, and parental stress at the end of the intervention as compared to the control group. Additionally, the 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children group reported decreased parental anxiety, and the EC group reported a decrease in emotion-dismissing parenting style. Emotion-coaching parenting style remained unchanged for all groups at postintervention. The waitlist control group received 1-2-3 Magic when the 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children and EC groups completed the intervention. The results for the EC and 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children groups were maintained after three months. After two years, all within group effects were maintained for the 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children group. For the EC group, within group effects were maintained on the main outcome variables. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the 3-month and 2-year postintervention follow-ups and the small sample size for a study involving three groups.

Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. (2015).Preliminary evaluation of a self-directed video-based 1-2-3 Magic parenting program: A randomized controlled trial. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 66, 32-42. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2015.01.003

This article was not used in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 since it was a modified version of the program. This randomized controlled trialÂexamined the effectiveness of a self-directed video-based format of the 1-2-3 Magic parenting program in reducing dysfunctional parenting and child problem behaviors. Parents were randomly assigned to either the intervention group (1-2-3 Magic) or the waitlist control group (control). Intervention-group participants could choose to view the program's video material in DVD format (and receive two DVDs by post), or to access the video material online via a secure link (with continued access until completion of the study). Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS-21), and the Therapy Attitude Inventory. Results indicate participants in the 1-2-3 Magic group reported significantly less problem behaviors for their children, and significantly less dysfunctional parenting, at the end of the intervention when compared to the control group. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the 6-month postintervention follow-up, small sample size, concerns about the generalizability to other populations due to the largely college educated, married, above average income sample and the use of self-referred families, who may be more willing to complete self-directed work than others.

Bailey , E. L., van der Zwan, R., Phelan, T. W., & Brooks, A. (2015).Keeping it going: Evidence of long-term improvements after implementation of the 1-2-3 Magic Parenting Program. Child & Family Behavior Therapy, 37(4), 303-320. https://doi.org/10.1080/07317107.2015.1104776

Note: This article was not used in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 since it was a modified version of the program. The aim of this randomized controlled trial was to investigate the effectiveness of a two session version of the 1-2-3 Magic on child and parent behavior for families with school-aged children. Parent participants completed a total of 6 hours (2 x 3 hour sessions held over 2 consecutive days). Families were randomly allocated to one of two groups: The first received immediate training of 1-2-3 Magic (n=5; immediate intervention group) and the second (control or delayed-intervention group; n=7) received training 8 weeks later. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Information Questionnaire (PIQ), and the Parenting Scale (PS). Results indicated only families who had received training reported significant improvement in child and parenting behavior. Limitations include small sample size, reliability of self-reported measures, and data from the 12-month follow-up assessment does not include any control data.

Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. (2016).A preliminary evaluation of the 1-2-3 Magic parenting program in an Australian community setting. Australian Social Work. 69(4), 388-402. https://doi.org/10.1080/0312407X.2015.1086010

Note: This article was not used in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 since it was a modified version of the program. The aim of this one group pretest-posttest study was to investigate the effectiveness of a three session version of the 1-2-3 Magic & Emotion Coaching program on dysfunctional parenting styles, parental psychological adjustment and on children's disruptive behaviours. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS-21), and the Therapy Attitude Inventory. Results indicate a significant decrease in disruptive child behaviour, permissive parenting, and parental depression and stress. Limitations include the lack of a comparison group and small sample size.

Additional References

Phelan, T. (2004). 1-2-3 Magic: Effective discipline for children 2-12. Parent Magic, Inc.: Glen Ellyn, IL.

Contact Information

Thomas W. Phelan, PhD
Agency/Affiliation: Parent Magic, Inc.
Website: www.123magic.com
Email: pmi@pmi.digitalspacemail11.net
Phone: (630) 790-9600
Fax: (630) 469-4571

Date Research Evidence Last Reviewed by CEBC: March 2023

Date Program Content Last Reviewed by Program Staff: August 2021

Date Program Originally Loaded onto CEBC: March 2006

CEBC » 1 2 3 Magic Effective Discipline For Children 2 12 › Program › Detailed (2024)

FAQs

CEBC » 1 2 3 Magic Effective Discipline For Children 2 12 › Program › Detailed? ›

Program Overview

What is the 1-2-3 Magic discipline method? ›

1-2-3 Magic, by Thomas Phelan, describes an approach to child discipline that has the advantage of being very simple to learn and follow. When a child misbehaves he or she gets two warnings before being sent to his/her room for a time out. The “1-2-3” refers to how the warnings are given.

What is the magic 1 2 3 parenting course? ›

The 1-2-3 Magic and Emotion Coaching program aims to help parents and carers manage difficult child behaviour with a focus on strategies and techniques that promote positive behaviour; encouragement in developing the child's ability to manage their emotional reactions; and relationship-building.

Does 1/2/3 magic work for ADHD? ›

1 2 3 Magic is a behavioural Management Programme for children aged 2 – 12 years. The strategies used are very effective for children with ADHD.

What method of discipline is usually most effective in controlling the behavior of a 2 yr old? ›

Time-out is one of the most effective disciplinary techniques available to parents of young children, aged two years through primary school years (5). The time-out strategy is effective because it keeps the child from receiving attention that may inadvertently reinforce inappropriate behaviour.

Does 1-2-3 Magic actually work? ›

Overall, 1-2-3 Magic is likely to save parents a lot of time and energy that could be wasted on arguments. Kids are likely to learn pretty quickly that when Mom or Dad starts counting, they mean business. It's also likely to help kids learn new skills and prevent many behavior problems before they start.

What is the 30% rule for ADHD? ›

A leading expert on ADHD believes that children with ADHD typically lag behind their peers by 30%, which means that their emotional age is roughly 30% less than their actual age.

What calms down kids with ADHD? ›

Physical exercise has been proven to be hugely helpful for children with ADHD, boosting mood and brain function. Movement can also be calming through activities that provide strong proprioceptive input to help regulate our child's sensory system.

What is the most effective ADHD program? ›

Cognitive-behavioral therapy is generally considered the gold standard for ADHD psychotherapy. While "regular" CBT can be helpful for ADHD, there are also specific types of CBT for ADHD.

How to discipline a child who won't listen? ›

Here are some tips to discipline preschoolers who don't listen:
  1. Make eye contact. Get on their level and look them in the eye. ...
  2. Never ask something more than twice. ...
  3. Pick your battles. ...
  4. Know your child's triggers. ...
  5. Practice prevention. ...
  6. Be consistent. ...
  7. Don't get emotional. ...
  8. Listen and repeat.

What are the red flags for 2 year olds behavior? ›

Hyperactivity or constant movement beyond regular playing. Frequent, unexplainable temper tantrums. Unusual fears or worries. Difficulty taking part in activities that are normal for your child's age.

How do you punish a child for bad behavior? ›

Use calm consequences

Give your child a chance to do the right thing by explaining the consequences of their bad behaviour. As an example, if you want your child to stop scribbling on the walls, you can tell them to stop or else you will end their play time.

What is the 1-2-3 method? ›

Under "1", note the most important and/or time-critical task. Under "2" you note the two tasks that are also time-critical and/or important, but do not have top priority today. Under "3" you note three smaller tasks that you would like to complete today.

Is 1-2-3 Magic evidence based? ›

1-2-3 Magic is an evidence-based, easy-to-learn and effective positive parenting solution for parents. The 1-2-3 Magic parenting programs produce results quickly, and has solutions for children from two to eighteen.

What is the difference between positive discipline and 1-2-3 Magic? ›

1-2-3 Magic is more assertive when it comes to dealing with obnoxious or difficult behavior. Positive discipline will talk about “replacement behaviors.” That's fine, but it also talks about what “need” is being met by the child's misbehavior.

At what age can you start 1-2-3 Magic? ›

1-2-3 Magic is a group format discipline program for parents of children approximately 2-12 years of age. The program can be used with average or special needs children.

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